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Three Kingdoms match making related – Modern vs Ancient Match Making

| Articles of Ancient China | April 28, 2014

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Since ancient China’s Romance of the Three Kingdoms period there were already millions of match making sessions by ancient “mei po” or match making grannies/aunties to help young and old men and women meet up and either get to know each other or for marriage. Look at this famous match making TV variety show from China. Enjoy.


Following are some traditional ancient China’s match making to marriage steps
1) Match Making
2) Match the couple’s birthdates/days to check if the couple is a match in heavens
3) Delivery of wedding gifts or dowry to the lady’s family
4) Welcome the bride with the sedan chair
5) Praying to heavens and earth and bowing to each other (To be man & wife)
6) Lifting of the bride’s veil
7) Man & Wife will drink their cross cupped wine
8) To chase away evil spirits, friend and relatives of both bride and groom will need to disturb the couple’s wedding room
9) Visiting of the parents

In current modern societies, there are thousands of methods to get to meet the opposite sex. And one of them is joining blind dates. Like the one shown below.


Other Modern ways to find your soulmate, boyfriend, girlfriend, etc

1) Facebook.com (Create your account in FB and find friends (sincere friends) with common topics, please do not spam them, but be sincere in the topics which you discuss. Discuss for sometime before asking for a meet out with group outings)
2) Join social outings, gathering
3) What you think is important as that is what you will attract. So think of the person type which you like.
4) Dress and wear properly
5) Take care of yourself, your outlook
6) Be calm, dont talk too much or too little
7) Think positive thoughts
8) Take the first step, once you find the person you like, make the initial move
9) Be his/her friend first
10) Try match making centers
11) Join clubs or community centers activities which you like (E.g. Painting, clay modeling, photography, aquarium, dancing, etc)
12) Think out of the box, make sufficient effort in finding your soul mate (This is about your own happiness, so work hard at getting the person you like. And also maintaining it as well)
13) Use mobile dating apps
14) Join trusted dating associations, join their activities and have a fun weekend meeting friends as a first step

SDN Trust Accreditation Dating Agencies in Singapore/ Association of Dating Agencies & Matchmakers

Always contact the relevant agency’s rep and speak to them before you commit to any package which they offer. And also make sure they are registered with government trust boards like SDN, ADAMS, CaseTrust, etc before you join them. All the Best & Enjoy your Journey Ahead!










Dating Videos

Many more datings suggestions, ideas, recommendations for you singles out there looking for your soul mate.

Be brave (and careful) and try many different types of dating methods

Go for a blind date

Go to the park

Take some pre marriage pictures when dating
Angie & James's Pre-Wedding at Nora Beach Resort and Spa in Samui Thailand

Go out with their families members

Try group blind dates

Group lunch or dinner dating to meet more friends (And possible soul mates)

Speed dating is also another possibility as a start in finding the one you love (soul mate)

Eat out with friends or join dating agencies/societies which organize such group dating/outing events

Go to some fancy restaurant

Speed dating to meet more friends (Watch out for such dating events in the newspapers or websites)

Be brave (And careful), go after the one your like, just be friends first to get to know each other

Fine wine and dinning dating

Mass blind/speed dating/Good to get to know many people at one go

Remember to be sincere when making friends and also err be fast too to grab your guy/gal who you like

Join some kite flying, making session from Dating societies/clubs to meet other singles

Use mobile dating apps like “Paktor”


Celebrities who are dating in TCS Singapore

Good Dating Places in Singapore

1) Esplanade Roof Garden
2) Singapore Flyer
3) 1-Altitude
4) Marina Bay Sands
6) Gardens by the Bay
7) City-Sightseeing Boats (More expensive)
8) Marina at Keppel Bay
9) Mount Faber
10) Jewel Cable Car (More expensive)
11) Fort Canning
12) HSBC TreeTop Walk (Nature Walk)
13) East Coast Park
14) Yueh Hai Ching Temple (For people looking for a lifetime soul mate only)
15) Singapore Night Safari Zoo
16) Sentosa – Song Of The Sea
17) Boat Quay and Clark Quay
18) St James Power Station (Entertainment hub)
19) Downtown East
20) Halia
21) The Fullerton Waterboat House
22) Windowsill Pies http://windowsillpies.sg/
23) http://www.alkaff.com.sg/
24) http://www.thewhiterabbit.com.sg/
25) The Light House http://www.fullertonhotel.com/dining/default-en.html
26) The Jewel Box https://www.facebook.com/TheJewelBoxAtMountFaber
27) Capella Singapore http://www.capellahotels.com/singapore
28) Prive http://www.theprivegroup.com.sg
29) JAAN http://www.jaan.com.sg/
30) http://forlino.com
31) http://www.saltgrill.com
32) Bottletree Park in Yishun (For couples who like fishing)

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