Ever thought of how Three Kingdoms subordinate warriors behaved around their warlords during the romamce of the three kingdoms period. During the three kingdoms period, its was a life and death period, the warriors must be even more social or EQ savy or else one wrong word, one wrong action or one wrong war tactic will definitely cause their life or be beheaded. Especially so for warriors under CaoCao’s camp. So many talented advisors, generals, warriors under CaoCao and the law is under governed by CaoCao and his family. Think of it, one wrong word about CaoCao or his family or family members, his spies would had picked up and informed CaoCao, the next day another headless warrior.
So how should existing employees behave in today’s worl environment? Very much similar but without the life threatening part from ancient RTK times. And when joining a new group or organization, you need to ensure that you are not a threat to the group. Engage in small talks with the group members so that everyone feels at ease. Know what your boss want and be on the good side of your boss. Get out of problems and do not bad mouth others. In a group, social bonding is the most important, helping each other in areas which the other person require is important and will build long term good, trusting relationship. See this good video which shows and teach you the different ways to maintain a good working relationship with both your boss and your colleagues. Enjoy.
National Geographics – Going Ape – Social Climbers – RTK group/social relationship related
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